Hot Button Christianity

I'm currently reading a novel called "Deadline" by popular christian author Randy Alcorn. Now, I don't want to turn this blog into a book review, but I do want to talk a little bit about the content of this book. The story follows Jake, a general columnist for a major newspaper, as he tries to figure out the mysterious death of his friends. Sounds like a clever, page-turning thriller doesn't it? Well, it is an interesting story, and it would be even more so, if Alcorn didn't do his best to try and fit in all the "hot button issues" he can. The book takes on 3 distinct parts: 1) What is heaven going to be like (one of the characters goes to heaven, and the story often tells about the wonders he is seeing while there), 2) The murder investigation (the basic plot aspect of the story), and 3) what I like to call The Soapbox. I have no problem with the 2nd aspect...and for the most part the other 2 parts as well..I just don't like that Alcorn feels obligated (at least it seems that way) to included all of it as much as he possibly can. Let's start at the heaven part.
Heaven is one of those mysteries that we will never fully solve until the day we arrive there. I have no real problem with books, or people in general, talking about heaven and making speculations about what it will be like, but I don't like someone writing in a novel about what it WILL be like. Granted, Alcorn never does say that this is an accurate depiction of heaven, but it doesn't go out of its way to say that it is fictitious either. I wonder what heaven will be like, I have images in my head and I can't wait to see how innaccurate they really are, but I take offense to someone telling me "This is what heaven will be like"..because no one knows. This also brings me to those "I died and spent an hour in heaven" books. I don't want to diminish their actual accounts (assuming they are true), but I personally don't think that anyone needs to write a book about exactly what heaven will be like. There is a beautiful mystery to not knowing. It keeps us curious about what it will be like. These books take away the mystery, or at least part of it, and I think that it is wrong. Let's leave heaven as a mysterious place that will only be fully realized what that day comes. Continue to speculate, discuss with people ideas of what it may be like, but we shouldn't come right out and say "this is what it is".
This bring me to the 3rd point. The soapbox. I hate the fact that Christinity has become a Hot Button Issue religion. It seems that every Christian book, movie, or even any time a Christian is portrayed in hollywood or on the news, that they are pushing their opinions. I think values are very important, and when given the chance we need to share our values with one another, but since when did Jesus tell us to make signs about the evils of "pro-choice", or to humiliate the sinful acts of homosexuals. I know that many Christians don't give into these protests and picketing...but many do. And many of the others who don't protest outright, do go out of their way to push their opinions on others.
I remember, while I was at Bethany, one time in particular, that someone tried to push their opinions on me. It was during camp days, and I was sitting with one of my friends on the couches in the common area. Sitting with us was one of the camp directors. For some reason, we started talking about abortion. My friend said something about "I believe that most abortions are wrong, but I think that there are times when an abortion is ok"...all of a sudden, the camp director looked at my friend, and firmly and angrily said "Your wrong!". WHAT? really? You are going to shut that opinion down just like that? I can understand with you not agreeing, but to bluntly say that someone is wrong, especially about such a debatable issue is insane. I hate that among Christian circles you either believe these certain things, or you are WRONG. It seems that as a Christian, we have to believe that all abortions are wrong, sex outside of marriage is evil, homosexuals are doomed to hell, stem cell research is from the devil, and countless other major issues that we deal with on a daily basis. Now, I'm not coming out and saying that I disagree with these things, I'm not saying that I completely agree with them either, but since when did we take away free choice. Who are we to judge what someone believes? Now, I do believe that there are some things that are wrong, in which the world seems ok with, but why do Christians feel that it is their personal vendetta to convince everyone that they are wrong? What happened to the "love everyone" and "build relationships with one another", that we used to believe. We need to stop being so critical of people, and pushing our opinions on everyone. There are times and places to push our opinions, and when people ask what you think of something, by all means share it with all of your might...but when someone makes a small little opinion about something, don't go out of your way to tell them that they are wrong. Instead, tell them your opinion, in a friendly, non-threatening way, and have a healthy discussion. Who knows, you may even expand your opinion about something...change your mind even slightly.
So put down the signs, stop the protests, rip up the petitions...we need to start being the loving, accepting, tolerant (to an extent) religion that we were meant to be. Jesus himself ate with sinners, likely talked with homosexuals, prostitutes...all sorts of "evil" people...he didn't agree with what they did, but he didn't judge them either. he didnt burn their homes, or start a protest march. he loved them for who they were, and what potential they had. He shared his beliefs and opinions, but in a non-threatening way. Oddly enough, the most threatening he ever was, was against the "Christians" (I guess Jews, at the time), when he turned the tables in the temple and called out the Pharisees. Perhaps, instead of casting judgement, and forcing our opinions on those "outside", we need to do an inner, gut check first.